Simply Gene
Love Science: Falling in love just a matter of chemistry of the brains
Finding Mr. Right was easy for me. I found him many times. He came in all forms and sizes. Every time I remember the defiance, the swooning, the long hours together and cooing of the folly of the jumpy late at night, drunk with love and too much cheap wine. I remember the unbridled ecstasy, the intensity, the unstoppable power and daydreams that flooded my mind constantly, even once cost me my job. Influenced by love, even had not fired a lot, is not love a wonderful thing?
There's nothing like new love to make us feel alive;. it is a turbo-boost costs and each molecule is powerful enough to our hearts on fire It's so emotional, so strong and while we believe that it connects our souls, in reality, the little to do with our feelings or our hearts for that matter.
There is a science of love and if you think that by deliberately choosing a partner we have risen above our animal nature, you'd be wrong. Discoveries show that the ecstasy we feel just a powerful potion invented by an instinctive dance of hormones and chemicals in the brains to a genetic orchestrated tune. There is nothing conscious about love.
His "crazy in love" is a striking description confirmed by the many similarities between the characters of the new love and the symptoms of insanity. Cynics say that love is temporary insanity curable by marriage and science shows that they are not too far from the truth.
So, what happens when we meet Mr Right?
Love is in primarily driven by lust fueled by testosterone. From puberty as testosterone acts as an overzealous hormonal town-crier prelude to the burning urgency of our genes. Conventional wisdom wrongly attributed testosterone in men only but in fact both men and women have, just in different degrees.
In the fairer sex, four or five shots of liquor caused sufficient increase in testosterone boys correspond to the levels found in horny teen. So if We meet our beau, while parties, we can drink an inappropriate way interesting enough to put him into a prince.
Still, sobriety is no guarantee as our imaginations all shades of pink, the alchemy that is more powerful than any substance in a shot glass.
Before we were old enough the word 'love' spell, we all had fantasies about magical prince or princess who would drive us right cloud. Of course these notions are fanciful but they are powerful because it shows created the blueprint for our Mr or Ms Right.
If we single-but-seek, the blueprint is changing our brains In a radar constantly scanning for the nearest match. Too often hones in on some poor unsuspecting nature, which may have little else going for him other than the questionable honor of the best 'fit' for the night.
If you bed the boy romance heats up and whether he is a prince or a frog, the atmosphere begins be impregnated with love. You do not have to be in love with someone to have great sex because sex makes love happen.
Sex releases oxytocin, the cuddle chemical best known for creating feel-good bonding between mother and child, and the nest-building. So it's not surprising that starry-eyed lovers talking to each other 'baby' and start worrying about boring domestic issues, such as pinpointing the perfect washing machine.
Oxytocin is a relationship and like super glue the sticky glue is not primarily about who the bonds. A few hot romantic encounters is enough to make the deal, and once cemented seal, madness begins.
You know the feeling. Influenced by the huge waves of energy, euphoria and excitement of the dullest infusion may suddenly turn into the funniest / smartest / Most charming (delete where applicable) man you've ever met. You also tend to go wild escapades, such as shouting from the rooftops or token love poems Although the night and you get intelligent brains can-think-like-or-nothing-else-but …
Although many romantic air-castles are built around the idea of Finding a soulmate, this heady thrill has nothing to do with a spiritual connection and everything to do with dopamine. Dopamine is a naturally occurring chemical that works brains as cocaine-on-steroids and while we are flooded in, he can not hurt.
Although some romantics as this may sound like science party-pooping the magic of love, the truth is combined with dopamine lust is just the way genes are kicking ass. By focusing our energy on a person, drives us to collect DNA a partner – whoever the person is.
Genes do not care how crazy you are, they just motivate you to shag in the narcissistic pursuit of their goal, even the most balanced person can totally irrational. Again, it's chemistry in the brains at work. High levels of dopamine to suppress the peaceful and wise influence of serotonin, another neuro-chemical influences the vote.
In normal doses of serotonin, the anti-dote to stress; the 'shoo-whaa "chemical calms and relaxes us. But as the brains soaked in dopamine, serotonin rushes in the shade like a Zen master would be sagely silence and face the full force of a A-type personality Donald Trump.
The silence of serotonin should use as low levels of genetic make us obsess about our newfound lover. New love can look like a mental illness and, during the early stages of romance, the chemical composition of the brains of men and women is no different than people who suffer of obsessive-compulsive disorder or OCD. For those who really have been beaten, obsessed about his miracles or the minutia of the relationship may consume about four hours a day, every day.
So dopamine hold on the object of your love and subsidence levels of serotonin to be obsessed about him … and before you know, the madness was the love fires burning long enough for an evolutionary satisfactory result, offspring.
Does this explain monogamy, certainly not! A passionate romance is like a drug is bound to lose the kick – usually within one year or two – and when the time does not work delivery, luckily for the children. parenthood keeps dopamine madness, but its absence can lead to the conclusion that you have fallen out of love … of course the next Mr. Right comes along, it sparks the whole mad romantic psychosis all over again.
Neither age nor experience love chemistry changes, that's why we keep doing it. And even though you, like me, have experienced rejection, the pain is just withdraw from the chemical brew that this genetically triggered what we call love maintained.
Now that contraception frustrates frantic genetics, it is worth mentioning that sex also releases the hormone prolactin. Among other brain cells produce prolactin and sex makes us smarter So maybe we will all ultimately wise enough to agree with Robert Frost, who poetically said. Love is just an overwhelming desire to be irresistibly desired.
About the Author
Stephanie Vermeulen runs seminars on Applied Emotional Intelligence and Women’s Issues in business and public forums as well as being an inspiring speaker, writer and personal coach. Her books, ‘Kill the Princess: Why Women Still Aren’t Free from the Quest for a Fairytale Life’(USA) / ‘Stitched-up: Who Fashions Women’s Lives?’ (South Africa) & ‘EQ: Emotional Intelligence for Everyone’are available from leading bookstores and online through Amazon.com and Kalahari.net. She can be contacted via her website http://www.eqsa.co.za .
If bleach was poured into the shallow end of the gene pool, how many people know you would just disappear?
Inspired by these ex Wifey
50% at least! Hey, why arent we are connected ?????
Gene Kelly Tribute – Simply Irresistible
|
|
Ashton Drake Simply Gene Doll 2002 Rare Mel Odom 76447-HT 16″ $179.99 |
|
|
Ashton Drake Simply Gene Doll Artist Mel Odom NRFB $149.99 |
|
|
Aston Drake Gene Marshell Simply Gene Doll Plus Extras Free Shipping $89.99 |
|
|
Simply Gene Doll Odom Trejo Bolero Ashton Drake LtdEd NIB w/#COA Mint NRFB EB489 $59.99 |
|
|
Ashton Drake ‘Simply Gene-Brunette’ Doll NIB (doll never removed) w/ shipper $62.00 |
|
|
BRAND NEW IN BOX ASHTON DRAKE GENE DOLL “SIMPLY GENE (RED)” IN MINT CONDITION $69.99 |
|
|
Simply Gene Mel Odam Vinyl Doll Collector Doll Doll Collectible Blonde Doll $49.97 |
|
|
Simply Gene Doll Brunette Hair! NRFB MIB With Shipper & COA! $49.99 |
|
|
Simply Gene Doll Brunette Hair Redone! Mint Condition! With Shipper & COA! $44.99 |
|
|
Simply Gene Doll Brunette Hair Redone! Mint Condition! With Shipper & COA! $44.99 |
|
|
Simply Gene Doll Blonde Hair Redone! Mint Condition! With Shipper & COA! $44.99 |
|
|
Simply Gene Doll Blonde Hair Redone! Mint Condition! With Shipper & COA! $44.99 |
|
|
Simply Gene Doll Red Hair Redone! Mint Condition! With Shipper & COA! $44.99 |
|
|
Simply Gene Doll Red Hair! Mint Condition! With Shipper & COA! $44.99 |
|
|
Simply Gene Doll Red Hair! Mint Condition! With Shipper & COA! $44.99 |
|
|
Gene Doll, Ashton Drake Galleries, “Simply Gene (Brunette)”, Mint Condition! $25.00 |
|
|
Austin Drake, Gene Marshal Doll Artist Mel Odom Simply Gene 15″ vinyl $30.00 |
|
|
MEL ODOM’S RED HAIRED SIMPLY GENE DOLL. $29.95 |
|
|
SIMPLY GENE dressed in IT’S A WRAP MINT and COMPLETE $19.99 |
|
|
SIMPLY GENE dressed in FAREWELL GOLDEN MOON MINT and COMPLETE $19.99 |
|
|
SIMPLY GENE RAVEN MINT and COMPLETE $19.99 |
|
|
SIMPLY GENE PLATINUM MINT and COMPLETE $19.99 |
|
|
GENE SIMPLY GENE BROCHURE PAMPHLET 8 PG FOLD OUT $9.00 |
|
|
*NRFB* “Simply Gene (Brunette)” Gene Doll by Ashton Drake Galleries – Mel Odom $75.00 |
|
|
Ashton Drake GENE Doll by Mel Odom SIMPLY GENE Golden BLONDE, No Reserve! $39.99 |
|
|
Gene Share the Dream Hatbox W/ Blue Simply Gene Suit Heels Stockings Earrings $22.50 |
|
|
Ashton Drake Mel Odom’s Gene doll “Simply Gene” $19.97 |
|
|
Original 2002 Simply Gene Doll-New with box with papers and shipper $13.00 |
|
|
1997 SIMPLY GENE REDHEAD Doll In MANDARIN MOOD Mel ODOM Ashton-Drake Complete $4.99 |
